Even with training wheels, he's just not interested.
I've tried to trace it back to a particular incident, a fall, a fear. He remembers something that I don't, something that he tells me was really bad. I know we never took him to the hospital! But in some way, it left a mark on him because he has absolutely refused. Last summer, it wasn't even up for discussion.
But I really really really wanted him to learn to ride a bike. Call me selfish. I want him to have the freedom and independence of a bike as he gets older. I want to have this skill that I think is really important. And fun!
I've offered toys.
I've offered money.
I've offered....well, almost anything. (Except this.)
What I think did it? (I'm still not totally sure!) A young friend recently announced that he wanted to teach Sam, age 4, to ride without training wheels. Notwithstanding Sam's lack of interest in this project, I think a little older-brother-before-younger-brother rivalry came into play.
All of the honor of this teaching goes to my darling husband. Seriously, his patience and calm was amazing. (He promised David that he wouldn't yell. But he never even appeared to get frustrated with him!)
It took only about 30 minutes total until we got this:
(can you see the smile on his face?)
They make a great team.
And yet, he still waited until he was ready.
I knew it would happen. I just had to believe it.